Where you likely come from:
A streaming or real-time platform (Discord, Slack, Zoom, Twitch, Mux, LiveKit), an ML-infra company (Modal, Baseten, Replicate, Together), or a pipeline/workflow shop (Temporal, Stripe Radar, trading systems).
Weak fit: backend engineer who’s only built systems where users don’t wait in real time (overnight jobs, reports, dashboards).